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You’re Not Broken for Needing Space

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Sometimes the strongest move isn’t pushing harder — it’s pulling back. Protecting your energy isn’t weakness. It’s wisdom.


Vocabulary to Carry With You

Sanctuary (ˈsaŋ(k)-chə-ˌwer-ē) – from Latin sanctuarium, meaning sacred place. A space set apart for safety, rest and renewal.

Recalibrate (rē-ˈka-lə-ˌbrāt) – from Latin calibrare, meaning to adjust. To reset or fine-tune something so it works more accurately or effectively.


There will be moments when you feel like you’re falling behind. When everyone else seems loud, confident and “on” — and you’re just trying to find a little quiet space to think.

It’s easy to wonder if you’re doing something wrong.

But here’s the truth: You’re not broken for needing space. You’re human.

The need to step back isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom. You’re tuned into a different rhythm. Your energy renews in silence, in rest, in moments when the world stops pulling at you. That’s your sanctuary. And protecting it? That’s strength.

You don’t need to explain why you feel foggy after a group project, why social events wear you out or why your brain needs a pause before jumping back in. That’s just how you’re wired. And that wiring? It’s powerful.

When you protect that space, you protect your thinking. You recalibrate your focus. That pause you take? It often leads to your best ideas — the ones that actually feel like you.

So here’s the real flex: You don’t recharge by doing more. You recharge by creating space to reset. Whether that means stepping away for 10 minutes, closing your door or just slowing your breathing — you are choosing clarity over chaos. And that choice? It’s the mark of a strong mind.

Final Note from Your Learning Coach

You don’t need to keep up with someone else’s pace. You don’t need to prove you belong. You already do.

Create your own rhythm — and let the world adjust to you.

You belong here. Even when you need space. Especially when you do.


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Educator turned learning coach, Mama of seven, fueled by good coffee, sweet desserts and the magic of figuring things out.

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